Face Fear in the Dark

“But there is no reason to live and no limit to our miseries if we let our fears predominate.”

Eventually my fear of the dark took a back seat; hardly to raise its head except for inconvenient moments, such as waking up from a bad dream. For me this meant that my phobia was still lurking in the depth of my subconscious. Upon hearing my predicament at length, my uncle encouraged me to spend the night alone in the woods.

As a young adult it took me a few years to work up the courage to do so, and it took more than a few nights in the wilderness to defeat my enemy. Nightly, without a flashlight, my feet took me into ever darker reaches of the forest. Miles away from civilization lay my tent and bare essentials.

While lying there under a naked sky, completely vulnerable and out of place, the wind would whirl my imagination around for hours on end. In the beginning sleep did not overtake me until the first rays of light in the morning, but after a while my soul became one with its natural habitat. Sometimes a large moose would walk by, which could easily be the end of me, and yet death did not take my breath into its fold.

Not all of us have the proclivity for such a venture as mine and it may be foolhardy to embark upon such a journey without first consulting with a trusted elder. Not all battles can be won through sheer force, and sometimes the best we can do is to learn how to fall gracefully. Forbearance can be a virtue if applied under the right conditions. Whereas having your ribs crushed under the hoof of a thousand pound animal may bring you no closer to liberation than a psychiatrist who tries to squeeze 6 patients into an hour.


About Philosopher Muse

An explorer of volition and soul, a song under a night sky and a dream that forever yearns to be.
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8 Responses to Face Fear in the Dark

  1. Dot says:

    The journey described somewhat explains how you’ve become you. I suppose it takes necessary deliberation to cultivate a character. For me, ‘learning how to fall gracefully’ has certain special appeal 🍂

  2. Oh, I like your uncle’s idea of spending a night alone in the woods to face one’s fear of the dark and for those, for whom, that would be too big a step, why not pull up a chair and sit in the garden or beside a window. I shall remember this when needed, so thank you for sharing your story with us.

    I enjoyed how you wrote “the wind whirred my imagination” and how you recognised that darkness is the soul’s natural habitat. On that note, if you haven’t already read the poem, “The Peace of Wild Things” by Wendell Berry I highly recommend doing so. Warm and wild Imbolc blessings, Deborah.

    • He was drawing upon the ancient wisdom of our Mi’kmaq culture. Jung was also aware of the psychological need to send a boy out into the wilderness alone so that he might return a man. The Darkness has a way of revealing our true colours. Individuation is no mere walk in the park.
      “Just as the universal soul animates the cosmos with pure radiant light, so do we discover our unique purpose in the abject things of night.”

  3. JC says:

    I wonder how many things gave you a fright at first and now bring you pease.

  4. inese says:

    So cool :). Fear of the dark is a fear of unknown. I cannot tell that I feel comfortable in the dark. People with bad intentions operate in the dark; hidden hazards can be a threat too. Being vulnerable is a very cathartic experience, but… 🙂
    Hope all is well, Jason.

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